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Dreaming 3 times of a proposal

I’m going to begin by explaining what has recently happened and my recurring dreams of my boyfriend proposing to me. Nearly 3 months ago I decided to try online dating. (I am separated and soon to be divorced from my ex-husband, it was a very bad marriage) I met a very nice man that I really like. Well, about 2 days after we started talking I had the first dream. (we began talking on Wednesday, and I had the dream on Friday)

In the first one: I was helping my best friend load some items into a moving truck. My friend and I got in the back of the truck to check that everything was in place properly. Then my friend called me over to her. She was standing next to an old dresser that had a tiny gold box sitting on top of it. She looked at me and told me “Come open this box, I think it’s for you.” I opened it and there was a beautiful diamond engagement ring inside. It looked like it was a handcrafted ring.

Now fastforward several weeks later, and I finally set up to meet this man in person for a date (after nearly 6 weeks of talking online, and on the phone). Well, the friday night just before I was to go out with him the next day (Saturday) I had another dream. This one went this way:
I was at a wedding reception. I was there with him (the guy that is now my boyfriend). I got the impression that we were at a wedding for one of his friends. We were dancing, it was so vivid. I remember what we were wearing, I remember the music playing. I tripped (which is something I do all the time in waking life because I’m very clumsy), and he smiled and kneeled down to help me up. When I stood up he stayed down on one knee. He then asked me to marry him. And the ring he offered me was the same exact ring I saw in the first dream I described! I was crying tears of joy, I kissed him and said yes.

We are now in a relationship, and I had another dream of this nature a couple weeks ago. Again it happened on a Friday night just before I was going to see him the next day. This dream went this way: My boyfriend and I were laying outside together under a tree in my yard. It was warm, and it was night time. The stars were out and the moon was full. It was very vivid. I could smell the grass beneath us, I could feel him next to me. We were laying side by side holding hands and looking at the stars. He pulled me closer, so that I was partially on top of him. He kissed me and then looked deeply in my eyes, while stroking my hair. And then he said this to me: “I love you so much. And there is something I want to tell you. I’m not ready to ask you officially yet, and I don’t have a ring yet. But…I want you to know, that I want to marry you.” He kissed me again and I felt overcome with happiness.

And as if all of that isn’t strange enough…exactly one month before I met him, my best friend called me . She told me that she had a dream about me the night before. She told me she dreamed that I was getting married again. And this is really odd, but the man she described as my husband to be in the dream looks EXACTLY like my current boyfriend!

If anyone has any thoughts or interpretations I would love to know. This all seems very strange to me, especially considering I haven’t known him that long yet, and the feelings are kind of just beginning to grow between us.

Posted 4 years ago
 
 
 
 

Interpretations (2)

Interpretation #1

This dream shows that deep in your heart, you nurse the desire to be married again. The fact that you had three recurring dream of being proposed suggests that your inner heart is secretly wishing you to get engaged again. As of the feelings that the two of you have, it simply means that you have strong feelings and the dreams are indicating that the time is ripe for entering this wonderful phase in a relationship. So, check out these details and try to measure the true feelings that lie deep rooted in your heart. You secretly desire to exchange the vows of marriage and you are looking ahead to enjoy the pleasures of a married life.

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Answered By: Annie(1678 points Unconsciousness Hero)
 
Interpretation #2 by Anonymous

You probably want to hear that it is magical happenings and the world is coming together and the man you are with now is your soul mate. I think dreams are a bit more simple than we realize. You said your friend called you about a month before you met this man and told you she had a dream about you getting married and described a man with certain characteristics. After that dream and description, you subconsciously were being attracted to men with similar characteristics in hopes that perhaps your friend is clairvoyant and since your current marriage did not work out like you planned, hopefully your friend has choices for the type of man you should be with. You may not be trusting your own judgement as the past relationship did not pan out the way you had initially planned. It’s clear you are looking for guidance, and the only thing I can tell you is that relationships are difficult, except in the beginning. You both put your best food forward and are excited about the new person and have ideals for what you hope they turn out to be. These dreams are putting some solid expectations on the current boyfriend and you have subconsciously molded this man into your new hubby already. You deserve happiness and a wonderful marriage, but it is too soon to be thinking about that right now. You want things to work with this man, and it may work out, but putting unrealistic expectations on a new partner will only set you up for disappointment, and a sad, discouraged partner that feels as though he cannot live up to your expectations. Things are still new, fresh and exciting to you. You are newly single and any man you meet will look like gold in comparison to the previous relationship. The best advice I can give you is that the only reason you are having these dreams is because marriage is on your mind because you are going through divorce of a marriage gone sour and your friend told you her dream of you getting married. Sit back, relax, and just enjoy dating. Divorce is a long, frustrating, stressful process that you want to avoid having happen again. There are many options on online dating sites (for you and for him) and the temptation to see what else might be out there is one he may not be able to resist. I’ve done the online dating thing and that has been my experience with it. Don’t put all hopes and expectations on this one new man and you will not be setting yourself up for disappointment. I do hope things work out for you and you find your fairy tale happiness that you deserve, but expecting it to happen to you, and expecting this man to give it to you is not fair to either of you. Best of luck though. Smile and enjoy life’s journey. :)

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