Interpretation #1 by Anonymous
Let me tell you a story about a classmate in my junior high, the kid was polite and do not seem to be a trouble lad. Years later after high school graduation, the lad take his own life. It came a shock to the friends of the lad, because they felt him as a friend which they had share times together, which troubles them.
What I can offer is advise for friendship, in this life, choose wisely who you want to be friends in the long run, and like most cases, the friends who you later figure as a valuable friends might not live to your age or surpass you.
The decision is your, make the most happy memory, if you ask your elder, they might have taught you not to “live life with regret”.
Apology if you did not understand this interpretation, but about the family part, not everyone has perfect family, and that how they to become near perfect, so that you were made to be raised stronger, despite all that flaws in human nature.