In the dream an unknown friend approaches me and say they have got to tell me something as they cannot hold it in any longer.” Ntobeko (an exboyfriend who passed on a long time ago) is planning an angagement with / to you. His mother (whom I never knew) his mother is helping him and they was it so perfect that the Lobola money has been fully raised already and all they anticipate is a yes from me”. She further says that “they are on their way and should be here very soon.” The exboyfriend was my 1st boyfriend in Grade 5 or something and had later on in his grown up life shown HIV symptoms before he died. In the dream I remember his symptoms and make a note to request an HIV test when they come. I am however very intrigued in the dream and somewhat keen as he is not dead in the dream. I am single in real life and have broken up with a 4yrs reluctant, not so financially secure younger boyfriend 2 months ago!